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Acting Credits

2014
The Homesman (2014)
Aloysius Duffy

2013
The Blacklist (2013) (TV Show)

2012
Lincoln (2012)
W.N. Bilbo

2009
Shorts (2009)
Mr. Black

2005
The Office (2005) (TV Show)

2004
William Ashbury

2004
Boston Legal (2004) (TV Show)
Alan Shore

2003
Alien Hunter (2003)
Julian Rome

2003
I Witness (2003)
Douglas Draper

2003
The Pentagon Papers (2003) (TV Movie)
Daniel Ellsberg

2002
Secretary (2002)
Mr. Grey

2002
The Stickup (2002)
John Parker

2001
Dr. Roger Klink

2000
Slow Burn (2000)
Marcus

2000
Supernova (2000)
Nick Vanzant

2000
The Watcher (2000)
Campbell

1998
Stevenson Lowe

1997
Critical Care (1997)
Dr. Werner Ernst

1997
Driftwood (1997)
The Man

1997
Keys to Tulsa (1997)
Ronnie Stover

1997
The Practice (1997) (TV Show)
Alan Shore

1996
Lee Woods

1996
Crash (1996)
James Ballard

1994
Stargate (1994)
Dr. Daniel Jackson

1994
Wolf (1994)

1993
Dream Lover (1993)
Ray Reardon

1993
Jack Pozzi

1993
Frasier (1993) (TV Show)
Steven

1992
Bob Roberts (1992)
Chuck Marlin

1992
Storyville (1992)
Cray Fowler

1991
True Colors (1991)
Tim Gerrity

1990
Bad Influence (1990)
Michael Boll

1990
White Palace (1990)
Max Baron

1990
Seinfeld (1990) (TV Show)
Jason 'Stanky' Hanky

1989
Deforest

1988
Jack's Back (1988)
John, Rick Wesford

1987
Baby Boom (1987)
Ken Arrenberg

1987
Rip

1987
Mannequin (1987)
Richards

1987
Wall Street (1987)
Roger Barnes

1986

1985
The New Kids (1985)
Dutra

1985
Tuff Turf (1985)
Morgan Hiller

1985
Starcrossed (1985) (TV Movie)
Joey Callaghan

1984
Family Secrets (1984) (TV Movie)
Lowell Everall

1983
A Killer in the Family (1983) (TV Movie)
Donny Tison

1983
Cocaine: One Man's Seduction (1983) (TV Movie)
Buddy Gant

1983
Diner (TV Show)
Fenwick

1983
The Family Tree (1983) (TV Show)
Jake Nichols

1981
Endless Love (1981)
Keith Butterfield

1978
Team-Mates (1978)
Jimmy

Producer Credits

2013
The Blacklist (2013) (TV Show)
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Posted by Hello
1
wk ago
James, James, James, James, omighosh James. hahaha

Posted by James
4
wks ago
my vote was for e r o t i c a
poetry buy you didn't ask me

Posted by james
1
mth ago
is very s e x y too! Talented, intelligent, funny. What's not to like?

Posted by Barb Seals
1
mth ago
I think James Spader is the best. He is my all time favorite actor . he is so good looking but there is more to him than just his looks . Iwould give anything to meet him..but I know that will never happen ..you r the best james spader.

Posted by soooooo
1
mth ago
I guess not . Later !

Posted by soooooo
1
mth ago
Hmmm do you have time for a story? Do I?

Posted by soooooo
1
mth ago
So say something Mr. Spader. Say something. Lol


Posted by Good Morning
2
mths ago
That is something I'll remember all day. I hope you're prepared the next time I wake up before you. You might wake up with my to ngue in your pus sy, or my co ck in your a ss. You'll have to wait and see.""I can't wait." Those are my first words of the morning. No words needed to be said when your c ock was in my mouth. I'll remember that all day as well. I smile wic kedly as you get into the shower. Moving to your side of the bed, I change your alarm clock so it will wake you up 20 minutes earlier tomorrow morning. I can't wait to see what that means for me.

Posted by Good Morning
2
mths ago
"It's your turn now, I want to hear you cu m," you say. It was a command, not a suggestion or a request, knowing the tone is one I can't ignore. "You're going to c um for me, loudly in....three... two...one..." you continue, reading my body, moving your thumb along my cl it. On "one" I c um, squi rting more ju ices from my already drenched pu ssy, my cries echoing around the room. Your fingers slow, relea sing my sensitive pu ssy."What a way to wake up," your words were a care ss as you leaned down to ki ss my forehead.


Posted by Good Morning
2
mths ago
Fu ck, I'm c um ming...." you gr ind the words out. You take a step back, rele asing your giant c ock from my mouth. You aim and c um on my face, neck an bre asts. So much c um, it feels like you'll never stop. I m oan quietly now, reaching up with one hand to car ess your now softening c ock and wipe any remaining c um from the tip. My other hands moves down to my pu ssy, two fingers push inside me. I'm so fu cking wet, a third finger slides right in as well. I fu ck myself now with my fingers as you watch. Your c um dri ps along my br easts. I rub my bre asts, coating them with it, grabbing my ni pples while moving my fingers inside me. You push my hands out of the way, and squeeze my nip ples. I offer you my fingers that are covered in the ju ices from my p us sy. You li ck them clean under my gaze, then move to replace them with your own fingers. Your hands play me, finding the spots in my pu ssy and cli t that make me scre am in abandon as I reach the edge. 

Posted by Good Morning
2
mths ago
Sorry about the delay. Here is the rest

Posted by Good Morning
2
mths ago
One of your hands cups my head, the other guides your c ock in and out of my mouth and open throat. I s uck and fu ck your co ck with my mouth, my ton gue swirling up and down as your c ock, so big and hard now, stretches my mouth around it. Pus hing and fu cking my mouth. You reach down with one hand and pinch my ni pples, twe ak ing them. I try to scream in ag ony and ecst asy but I can't scream around your hard c ock. It forces my jaw to open wider, my throat to make room for it. I s uck, and s lurp and let you fu ck me, wanting to taste you when you c um. Hoping you won't co me in my throat.

Posted by Good Morning
2
mths ago
Your hips respond. So do your hands, finding the back of my head they tangle in my hair, guiding my head up and down, moving faster in the endless rhythm of fu ck ing. In one move you stand up and push me onto my back with a growl. My head hangs off of the bed. Your c ock finds it's way back into my mouth and down my throat. "Good morning, that's quite the wake up," you say. 

Posted by Good Morning
2
mths ago
When your body stills, I go back to running my lips and ton gue all over your hard co ck. Feeling it twitch and move against my care sses. How should I wake you up? The ideas drift across my thoughts as I ponder the possibilities of the morning. My pu.ssy is wet and thro bbing. It has been from the first touch of your c ock this morning. I want it inside me again and again and again, but this morning is about you. The selfish way I want you to fu ck me hard with my legs in the air so I can feel every inch of your co ck inside my wet pu ssy sidetracks me. One of my hands starts care ssing the length of your body while I start taking your c ock into my mouth, gradually taking it deeper to the back of my throat. My mouth moves up and down finding a rhythm, my other hand moving along the base of your c ock and your b alls. 

Posted by Good Morning
2
mths ago
In these moments before the day begins, you and your c ock are mine. I'll keep you hostage in the bed, holding you here with my strong, legs wrapped around you if it comes to that. But right now, it is just your co ck in my hands, with my to ngue gliding along it's shape. Creating an outline, a map, a path to follow for any tong ues that follow. Your c ock grows harder and bigger in my hands. My plea sure in it's size is renewed every time I see it, touch it, taste it, fu ck it. My li p s and ton gue swirl and slide across the soft surface that covers your ha rd sha ft.You shift in the bed and I pause with my l ips still surrounding the big purple h ead of your co ck, my hand freezing where it moved around the base. 

Posted by Good Morning
2
mths ago
This morning I'm still a little sore from when you rav aged my pu ssy last night. It is also still wet, my body prepared and wanting more. As if you can hear my thoughts you roll over onto your back, covered by only a sheet. I reach over and peel the sheet off of you hoping the movement and the morning air won't wake you up. Crawling to the foot of the bed, I gently nudge your legs apart, my hand lightly mass aging your feet and strong calves. Your breathing slows as you relax deeper and my hands move higher. My fingers lightly cover your co ck, enjoying it's size even relaxed. Softly, I wrap one hand around the base while the other begin cupping your tes ticles, moving behind and under them. I lean down and kiss the tip of your c ock, li cking it slowly, softly, sens uously. Wishing your c ock a good morning. It's starting to wake up even if you are not.

Posted by Good morning
2
mths ago
Waking up slowly, I roll onto my side and see you lying next to me amidst the slate grey sheets and blankets. It's a rare morning that I wake before you and I enjoy it for a minute, stretching deeply, arching my back, so my bre asts jut out, and reaching out through the long length of my legs. My fingers find my br easts and nip ples while I watch you sleep. It's a slow and sen suous morning after the tea sing last night. You always do enjoy a good tea sing. Until you overpower my tea sing because you know I enjoy a good, h ard, d eep fu ck ing even more. 

Posted by Good morning
2
mths ago
Mr. Spader. Sleep well? I'm busy today but here is a story for you. Haha :)

Posted by Come as you are
2
mths ago
You know I do like Mr. Spader, but my posts are not for him...

I don't have a obsessive personality, so I'm surprised myself

Posted by to come as you are
2
mths ago
you have a strange obsession with James

Posted by Come as you are
2
mths ago
Wanting even more, I pressed against the wall to push myself back against him harder as his hips slap ped against my bottom. I started to con tract around him. My moans echoed as I screamed with pleasure. Absently, I felt him swelling and throbbing before I felt his warmth filli ng me. My body was a mess of qui vers, and my knees were tre mbling.   He slowed down and pres sed himself de ep inside of me as he leaned forward kissing my back. I sat up a little and heard him whisper, Ready for round two?

Posted by Come as you are
2
mths ago
He was ready for more. As he moved me forward, I had to put my hands on the wall as a brace. The anticipation was k ill ing me. My lower lip was getting sore from b iting it, and I waited, not so patiently, for him to enter me. Finally, he th rust himself d eep inside of me and I let out a long satisfied groan.   Not one to resist tor turing me, he started with long slow motions. Aching from need, I brought one hand up to r ub my hard ni pples. Noticing my breathing getting h arder, he responded with h arder, faster th rusts. He reached up and wrapped my hair into his fi st, pul ling back lightly just to make sure I knew I was his.

Posted by Come as you are
2
mths ago
We kissed aggressively as our wet bod ies slid against each other. My hands explored his body as his explored mine. We continued kis sing and fon dling each other as the anticipation built. He gently ran his hands along the side of my face and through my hair as I leaned my head back into the water. He watched as the water tea singly ran down my face and over my glistening bre asts. Then, as if he couldn't take it anymore, he spun me around and pulled me toward him. My bottom was pressed against him, and I leaned my head on his shoulder as he grazed the back of my neck. His hands moved up my body, knea ding my bre asts and rubbing my hard nip ples.

Posted by Come as you are
2
mths ago
Hot Shower Quickie
He was taking a shower, so I came into the bathroom quietly. He didn't even know I was there until I pulled the curtain back and stepped in. He stood there and looked my body up and down. I laughed lightly as he started getting erect before we even touched. Stepping forward, he reached out and pulled me toward him. He wrapped his strong arms around me and pressed my body against his.

Posted by Come as you are
2
mths ago
No? Well I read an interesting story recently. Want to read it?

Posted by Come as you are
2
mths ago
Hello James. Do you get much action? Haha

Posted by Blow
2
mths ago
Kiss...li ck...su ck...su ck...su ck...pressure...pulse...release...then
swal low

Posted by Blow
2
mths ago
I like the feel of it in my mouth...in my hand...the pulse. :)

Posted by Blow
2
mths ago
Lol. How does it feel to RECEIVE?

Posted by Blow
2
mths ago
It feels...hard. Swollen. Warm...and taste mmmm

Posted by Blow
2
mths ago
How many women love to give
blo w jobs? Do you love it? What does it feel like?

Posted by Blow
2
mths ago
Tickle the lowest part of his test icles with your fingernails, then
mas turb ate him with one hand while you cup his test icles with the other. Take one test icle into your mouth at a time, and li ck it (don't su ck).

Posted by Blow
2
mths ago
Don't move quickly just yet; start slow, stro king it with your mouth, pressing down on the head with the underside of your tongue, or f lic king your tongue against it, all the while still moving slowly with your lips.

Posted by Blow
2
mths ago
Hold pen is up by the base with one hand, open your mouth wide enough that the pen is just barely touches the walls of your mouth. Take it as far back as you can go. Close your mouth and glide it out of your mouth again.

Posted by Blow
2
mths ago
Before you ingest it with your hot, wet mouth, hold it gently with one hand and kiss the base of his pen is with your wet lips. You don't need to do this for a long period of time, but just long enough for him to really want you to put it in your mouth.

Posted by Kate
5
mths ago
I guess I don't know anything about James really, he seems like a nice enough guy but I still feel kind of sad about him and Victoria splitting up. The fact that this beautiful hollywood star was married to an ordinary woman was cool, you felt he wasn't superficial or ego driven but just a very decent guy doing a fancy job. So it was disappointing to see him reach middle age and end his marriage to a woman he has been with for 20 years at least, who had given him two children and supported him when he was starting out as an actor and jumping into be with his co-star a younger, beautiful, skinny ex-model and casting his wife off.

Its just sad and predictable. I read an article about them when they were together in the 80's and how devoted he was to her, how they did everything together and how crazy he had been about her from the day he met her.

Posted by Nina
8
mths ago
OMG! I so Love the Blacklist,This is my Favorite Show.
I am also a fan of the BL Series, Loved that one too. Incredible Actor
LOVE James Spader,
Happy Birthday!! Have a wonderful weekend.

Posted by Bette
11
mths ago
I am LOVING Blacklist !!! Have always been a fan of James !!!

Posted by Jack Lonervon
2
yrs ago
Spader is 50 what? Leslie is ten years younger- I know, it is non of my business but why is this always the hollywood "MATH"? Miss Stephenson is successful on her own, is capable of ANYTHING on her own, so why the hollywood marriage? If she loves him, all the best to them but check out some people your age and from round home. Just a thought.

Posted by Bob Jonasman
2
yrs ago
Spader seems to always be after women far younger than him, why can he not seem to keep a relationship together? As someone who cares what happens to actress Leslie Stephenson, WHATS UP WITH THIS RELATIONSHIP? I can see Spaders attraction to Leslie but what's so great about him? Maybe some people should try dating people from their hometowns- just a thought. I wonder what would happen if Miss Stephenson dated a guy she went to High School with? Sure- someone like me. why not? No, I am not famous, I am not rich, I wish I had more to offer a women about to get married but life has been difficult and I am still trying to hang in there. Miss Stephenson is a extremely beautiful woman, she has some of the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen. I did not know her in High School but I wish I would have. James Spader has EVERYTHING so I guess he just has to have EVERYTHING plus more-Miss Stephenson, I guess I was just wondering why the average man never fits in the Hollywood equation, EVER?

Posted by Phil Tomalin
2
yrs ago
Thanks to James' coaching I haven't burnt any garlic in more than 20 years .

Posted by cometomywindow
3
yrs ago
He's amazing & his girlfriend is gorgeous

Posted by dimples101
3
yrs ago
he does not look his age at all!

Posted by Caroline Elizabeth Jung
4
yrs ago
I`m 39, single and hot for James!--great actor, seems like a great man, and someone I would like to meet soon!;; Loveya,Jimmy--keep up the good work and hopefully you and I will cross paths soon!--I;m on FaceBook--check out my pose in my bikini--you`ll like it I hope!

Posted by Barb
4
yrs ago
James Spader aka Alan Shore....I bought all 5 seasons of Boston Legal after watching the first few shows...You are divine...sophisticated and a superb actor....your character is played so well its as you`re not acting.

Posted by Diane
4
yrs ago
James Spader was made for the role in Boston Legal. I adore him! Why did Boston Legal ever end?

Posted by p.louise
5
yrs ago
James, you are brillant in David Mamet`s newest play RACE . I could not believe it when I heard you were going to star in a Broadway show, but here you are in NYC and doing an amazing job on stage. You were marvelous in movies, terrific on television, and stupendous on stage...what a trifecta!!! I am so glad I had the privilege of seeing you work your magic in RACE .

Posted by Albert Strickland
5
yrs ago
In this months ESQUIRE, on what I have learned segment. How you described what your mother had meant to you was poetry. I could not read it aloud it was just too beautiful my throat would close up. My GOD you are so articulate.

Posted by Tina
5
yrs ago
Boston Legal became an obsession for my husband and I and we were really sorry that it ended. The cast was so real and so very fun. Mr. Spade and Mr. Shatner were the highlight of the show. Thank you for sharing your talent! We enjoyed it for years! Thank God for re-runs!

Posted by Ngoni
5
yrs ago
i never had any interest in Bostol legsl, but since the first time i watched u......i was hooked. thank u

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James Todd Spader (born February 7, 1960) is an American actor best known for his eccentric roles in films such as Pretty in Pink; The Pentagon Papers; Less Than Zero; Sex, Lies, and Videotape; Crash; Stargate; Secretary; and Lincoln. His most famous television roles are those of the colorful attorney Alan Shore in The Practice and its spin-off Boston Legal, for which he won three Emmy Awards, and Robert California in The Office. He currently stars as Raymond "Red" Reddington in The Blacklist, and he is set to play Ultron in Marvel Studios' upcoming film Avengers: Age of Ultron.

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