(30 September 2000 - present) (separated) (2 children)
Spencer married former CNNfn journalist David Haffenreffer on September 30, 2000 at St. Andrew's Dune Church in an Episcopal ceremony. The couple has two children. They lived in the Riverside section of Greenwich, Connecticut, before moving to Los Angeles in 2008.
In March 2015 the couple announced that they have separated after 15 years of marriage.